Confronting Self-Sabotage Anyone else have to confront your own self sabotage today?? Today was day 3 of my new training and I fully admit a few times before I headed out for the gym I went through my list of excuses for why I […]
Month: November 2017
This is one of my many recipes that started as something totally different (aka unhealthy) and I tweaked it over time to make it healthier and tastier. It was originally found in my grandmother’s recipe box that was left to me and the original was […]
YAY! You survived the week! I hope your week wasn’t too stressful, but odds are you dealt with some stress at some point this week and if you’re like me, you’re glad it’s over! Whether it be kids, jobs, school, relationships, bills, the news, etc., we are faced with all kinds of stressors. But, it’s Friday and it is time to relax! Maybe you plan to blow off a little steam and have dinner and a drink with your girlfriends or maybe you plan on parking it on your couch and having a Netflix binge all weekend or maybe you just want to spend some time relaxing with your family. One thing is for sure, you deserve to relax however you please.
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But what happens when your form of relaxing is throwing your hands up on your eating behaviors and saying “I surrender!” All. Weekend. Long. Now, I’m not talking about taking your foot off the gas pedal just a little. Sometimes that is inevitable with having family home, needing to grocery shop or prep, going out to eat, etc. What I’m referring to is leaving work on Friday and having dinner with your girlfriends and having one too many chips and salsa plus your entrée plus a margarita (or two). Feeling bad about it the next day and continuing the destruction while you binge on Netflix and eat cookies straight out of the package. Maybe you haven’t grocery shopped so you grab fast food for dinner that night. And Sunday…well. What’s the point in stopping now? May as well have one last hoorah! Sound familiar? It does to me. I repeated this cycle for a long time before I overcame my weekend overeating! When I was engaging in this eating behavior my progress was slow, I felt out of control, and a lot of times it ended in insane bloat and stomach discomfort. It took some trial and error and LOTS of practice, but once I figured out the skills that helped me stop the cycle, I was able to break those destructive habits for good!
Tips for overcoming weekend overeating:
1) Have a plan. It’s all about preparation, right? Don’t wait until you’re faced with the obstacle to figure out how to tackle it. Set a game plan for yourself. You know the weekend is coming. If you know you’re going out to eat, figure out what you’re going to order ahead a time and set a drink limit for yourself.
2) Allow yourself some leniency without throwing in the towel all together. This is considered “black and white thinking”. Try to avoid this way of thinking. Allow yourself some chips and salsa without eating the whole basket. Have some cookies while you watch your shows without overdoing it. This comes back to number 1. Plan and prepare. Set an amount ahead of time, take that amount only, and put the rest away.
3) Avoid the food completely if you aren’t ready for number 2 (I’ve been there). If chips and salsa or the bread basket are your weakness, see if you can go to a restaurant where you aren’t served an appetizer. If you have to be around the food that may be triggering, avoid it altogether.
4) Grocery shop during the weekend, particularly on Friday or Saturday. This is something I implemented and I love it! I used to become frustrated during the weekend because I wanted to eat well but I didn’t grocery shop until Sunday or Monday and all of my fresh food would be bad by the weekend, leaving me with an empty fridge and not-so-good choices. Now, I grocery shop on Friday evening or Saturday morning and I’ve got fresh, healthy food for the whole weekend! I even plan a fun, new recipe to try out on Saturday.
5) Change your environment. If watching Netflix on your couch while snacking has been your normal routine, maybe try changing where you sit or what room you watch in. This may seem silly, but eating habits are behavioral and research shows that our environment largely affects what and how much we eat (see first link below). Try switching up your environment and see if that helps.
6) Find activities to look forward to that don’t involve food. Spend your Saturday going on a hike, or check out the new store in town you’ve been wanting to visit. Take a mini road trip to a neighboring town and check out antique stores or go to the library and find a new book. Maybe plan a family activity like going to the park. If your usual methods of relaxing involve food, you may try finding new methods helps you relax in a different way.
No doubt about it, life is stressful and food is GOOD! But weekend overeating may be sabotaging your progress or making you feel out of control and downright ill. Try out the tips above and check out the article below to help you conquer overeating.
Precision Nutrition: How To Quit Weekend Overeating